So, whenever I make a video like this, talking about what women like or dislike, I do my research. It’s not just me pulling things out of thin air. I try to do the best I can for you to condense the information that’s out there into a easy to watch video with examples. Now, Obviously, some women may feel differently about some of these items. But the overwhelming majority of women found these items to be very sexy on a man, and that’s why they made this list.
First up is, glasses. Women find glasses sexy on a man. It’s a maturity thing and a perceived sense of intelligence and a little bit of mystery. Think of it like Clark Kent. He’s a regular guy, but he’s also Superman. The cool thing with glasses is there’s like a million styles, shapes and colors that you can swap out for different looks. And, a lot of younger guys in their 20’s and 30’s are wearing glasses without prescription lenses as simply an accessory, like a watch, a bracelet or a necklace.
Chelsea Boots with Jeans
Next, and this one is specific, and it’s Chelsea boots with jeans. A ton of women think Chelsea boots with jeans is a tell-tail sign that a guy knows what he’s doing. I missed out on the Chelsea boot bandwagon for a long time, but now I am fully on board. There’s just something about the sleekness of Chelsea boots that women find very sexy. You can go with leather for a more dressed up and refined look, or suede for a more classy, casual look.
The next item is men’s accessories, and more specifically your belt. And my girlfriend would absolutely agree with this one. Because when I told her I was making this video, she said three things, Chelsea boots (see, I told you), your belts and proper clothing fit. We’ll talk about fit and a few more things in just a minute. But let’s talk about belts for a second.
Most guys own one or maybe two belts; The dark brown one that they wear all the time, and the black one they wear when they want to dress it up a little. I’m here to tell you, there’s a lot of other options outside of black and brown. What about solid gray or solid blue? Blue & white or red and blue?
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Moving right along, women think sport jackets are sexy. But, not just any sport jacket. Light color sport jackets. I read this a few different times and I was surprised. Personally I would’ve thought dark color sport jackets, but the light colors tend to be more unexpected. And when a guy wears one, women automatically assume he’s a little different and knows something other men don’t. Definitely go for light blue, light gray or tan.
Next on the list of what you wear that women find sexy, is the overall fit of your clothing. Specifically, your jeans and your shirts. Women find well fitting, current style jeans very sexy on a man. This means no saggy butt and no denim puddle down at your shoes. Women also like well fitted shirts that don’t have a big muffin top at your waist, or excess material in the arms. Let’s be clear though, this doesn’t mean your clothes have to be tight. All this means is you pay attention to how your clothes fit your body, and that you buy, or tailor accordingly.
Next is facial hair. Just about all the articles I read mentioned some sort of facial hair. But more specifically, close growth facial hair. No big beards.. sorry guys. I realize that big beards are popular, but most women think the 5-7 day growth is sexiest. Keep it groomed though and shave your neck. Just because David Beckham goes out in public with a neck beard, that doesn’t mean it’s okay.
This next one surprised me a little bit, but it’s hats. Not baseball hats though, but cool, modern fedora’s and derby’s. Women find it sexy because it shows confidence, intelligence and that there’s something different with that guy. Because not everybody feels comfortable in a hat. But the guys that do, have an advantage because women will instantly notice that guy and they’ll find him more interesting, more intelligent and more sexy.
Next we have underwear that women find sexy. And the most common answer women give when it comes to sexy underwear on a man is trunks or short boxer briefs. If you’re still running with Fruit of the Loom tighty whitie briefs, you’re missing out on a whole new world of comfort and support with technical fabrics, ball pouches and banana hammocks. It’s crazy… everybody is making underwear right now and the popular selling point is having a separate compartment for your frank and beans. It’s not necessarily my thing, but I’ve been wearing trunks for years and they’re by far, my favorite style, and apparently women’s too.