I can already hear the comments now…. “Who cares what women think”. “If you care what women want, you’re a simp.” Look man, you can absolutely have your opinions on the matter, but remember, you clicked this article. Let me just say that as a man, who likes women.. I am 100% in the majority that does care what women think and want.
Let go of the past
I mean, let’s do this… Let’s strip away all the emotions of what might’ve happened to you in the past and get down the roots. Because think about it…If you WANT the attention of women, it’s my opinion, that it’s in your best interest to arm yourself with information so that you have a leg up on the competition. Knowing some of the common things women are looking for can only help you when it comes to your “romantic situation.”
Don’t change who you are
Now, don’t get it twisted. I’m not suggesting that you need to change who you are as a man and conform yourself to what women want. Not at all. All I’m trying to do when I make these types of videos is to help you understand what MOST women are looking for so that you can use that information to have an advantage over the next guy. And I might add, there’s not a damn thing wrong with wanting to attract and spend time with quality women.
Okay, with all that said, let’s talk about the first thing you can do to get women to notice you. You knew this was coming, and it’s to improve your overall style. Women will absolutely notice a well dressed man. I’ve seen it time after time with my own eyes. I’ve even made a game of it sitting in a lounge with my girlfriend. When a well dressed guy walks in, you can sit there and watch almost all the women at some point, turn to look him up and down.
We’ve even played the game ourselves. I’ll get up and walk to the restroom, and when I come back in, she counts the number of women to give me the up and down. Now, there’s a definite difference between a casual glance of acknowledgement that someone walked in, vs. the up and down complete check out. That’s getting noticed in the most purist way, because it’s strictly a visual first impression. Here’s why dressing well is so important.
Women see you as someone who takes pride in himself
Women see a man that dresses well as someone who takes pride in himself and respects himself. So, the mindset trigger is, if he pays attention enough to choose his wardrobe carefully, he must be a high-quality man with some purpose. The reality is, the style bar has been set so incredibly low over the last several years that it really doesn’t take much effort to stand out from the crowd in a positive way. You just have to do THIS much better than the bare minimum.
Listen, I’m not here trying to force change if you don’t want to be changed. But please understand this one last point… A study of 2,000 women found that poor style is a deal breaker. 60% of women said that for them…. taste in clothes was the top dating deal breaker. Another study commissioned by Men’s Health Magazine, questioned more than 1,000 women ages 21 to 54 in two separate on line poll. They found that women ranked a man’s “sense of style” as one of the top 10 traits women want in a man.
Take care of your skin
Alright, the next way you can get women to notice you is to take care of the skin on your face. It’s all you’ve got so once again, it’s in your best interest to look after it, regardless. Tiege Hanley is sponsoring this post and in my opinion, this is the best skin care system out there for men because it is so simple to use. It They even send a little card that tells you exactly how much to use and when to use it. Everything in the kit is specifically formulated to work together give you clear, healthy skin which is gonna make you look better, and boost your confidence.
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Improve your posture
The next item on my list of how you can get women to notice you is to improve your posture. Now, I understand this might sound a little funny, but it’s true. Here.. do this for me over the next day or so… whenever your out doing whatever you’re doing, look at people, especially other men and pay attention to how that carry themselves.
You can 100% tell who’s confident and who’s not by the way they stand and walk. Pay attention to the head and shoulder positions. If the head is down, it appears as if he’s trying to be invisible and avoid everyone. If the shoulders are slumped, he appears weak and lacking confidence. Now, pay attention to YOUR overall posture for the next few days. Walk more upright, looking forward and try to keep your back and shoulders nice and straight.
Now, I’m not saying you need to walk around everywhere like a peacock, but just be more aware of how you’re presenting yourself. Because, like you’ll see over the next few days when you’re observing other people, it’s very noticeable. And because the whole idea here is to get noticed by women, you want them to notice you in a positive way.
Women notice your mannerisms
The next one is about your mannerisms. Women, older women especially, will absolutely notice and pay close attention to your mannerisms. Once again, spend the next few days observing people as people might be observing you. How are you sitting in your chair? Are you slumped back with your belly sticking out, or are you sitting up relatively straight? How are you holding your wine glass? Are you holding it by the stem, or by the bowl?
I can go either way on this, but if you want to do it correctly, hold your wine glass by the stem. This does two things… One, it prevents the wine from heating up from the warmth of your hand, and it also prevent the glass from getting covered with greasy fingerprints. She might also be paying attention to how you eat. If you’re a loud, sloppy eater, you might consider toning it down a little bit when women you might be interested in are within close proximity.
Improve your conversation skills
Then we have conversation. This one might take the most practice. Here’s a few things you can try that can make ordinary conversations a lot more interesting. I actually heard this from someone else a while ago, and it’s always stuck with me, and it works. So, say you’re in a conversation with a new lady friend, and you ask her what she does for work. Maybe she says she’s in real estate. Instead of rushing into telling her what you do, or generic questions about the state of the market… Create a little suspense. Here’s what I mean.
She says she’s in real estate. Instead is saying. “Oh, that’s cool.”… You instead say something like; “So… let me ask you this… and then pause for a second. The pause creates suspense and you just captured her full attention. Maybe she said she’s in finance marketing, if you have no idea what that actually is, don’t pretend that you do, because people can tell. Be open and honest and ask her to elaborate. Just say; “I have no idea what that is but I’d love if you could teach me something about it”. That’s gonna build up her confidence and make it more enjoyable for her to talk to you about her work. And with that my friends, live well, and I’ll see you in the next one.